Why journaling is good for self care

Bullet journals, gratitude journals, diaries, planners, they're all very popular - why? Because journaling is good for self care. From teenagers to women in their 50's people are journaling more and more, and while mental health is an issue we're all trying to tackle, journaling is helping people cope. It's a way to take care of yourself, to give yourself space and time and get things out of your head. So have you stepped onto the journaling path yet or are you still wondering whether it's for you?



Teens take care of themselves by journaling


Back when I was a teenager ("when dinosaurs roamed the earth" - as I would say to my kids!) I kept a diary. I got my first diary when I was 13 years old, it was a small A5 book with a brass lock with a tiny little key. I kept the key on a necklace around my neck and while I didn't have huge worries to write about at 13, apart from boys and homework, I soon established a routine of writing in that diary every day. 

At 14, when my parents split up and divorced, my diary became a safe haven. I wrote down how I was feeling. I vented about my mum when she was mean. I blurted out all the thoughts and emotions that were breaking me inside. I truly feel that keeping a diary, or a journal - whichever you want to call it - helped me stay sane. I really struggled when my parents divorced and my personality completely changed for a while there. I am just thankful that I can look back and know that keeping a diary helped me. 

Which brings me to today's teens - do they keep journals? My son doesn't, as far as I know, but do teenage girls? I hope so.

Why Journaling Is Good For Self Care | My Passion Planner, a coffee, and my computer are all I need for some self care.
My Passion Planner, a coffee, and my Macbook - all I need for some self care. 😊


Journaling is such a good way to take care of yourself that I hope teenagers are being told about it. And if they're not, I hope they read about it, or hear friends talking about it. At a time when emotions run high, hormones are raging, and there's so much angst, journaling could really help.

And it teaches you focus...



Journaling is focussed self care


Whether you write every day or every month, whenever you sit down to write in your journal you are giving yourself focussed self care. You are allowing time, just for you, where you write, draw, whatever it is you do in your journal. 

You take time to focus on yourself, to think about the days that have passed, to think about issues that are bothering you, and you let all that stuff go when you write it down. It is a calming, quiet pastime.





To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance.

Oscar Wilde





Journaling helps get ideas and thoughts out of your head


Like I said, when my parents were going through their divorce journaling helped me. I was able to write down what I was feeling, I was comfortable doing so because I knew no one would ever read it and that helped me vent. 

Journaling is such a good form of self care, especially if you don't intend anyone else to read it, because you can write down whatever you're feeling without the fear of judgement. We spend so much time keeping thoughts and feelings to ourselves for fear of being judged that a lot of the time we never truly say what we're feeling. Our heads become clogged up with all the things we never say and that's when we start to feel overwhelmed by everything. 

Taking a simple step, like starting a journal, could be a brilliant way of taking care of your mental health. You get time to focus on you, putting yourself first for a change. The self care you're allowing will give you time to chill out, to be quiet and calm. And when you're a busy mum any time at all to be calm and quiet is welcome - right?



Journaling can be a form of therapy


Americans are big on seeing therapists aren't they? Or at least that's the impression you get from the TV. Speaking to someone about your thoughts and feelings is a good way to help yourself, to make you feel better about whatever it is that is bothering you. But we can't all afford a therapist so what do we do?

Journaling, or keeping a diary, can be another form of therapy. Instead of speaking to someone about your thoughts and feelings you're writing them down, getting them out of your head and down on paper. If you have troubling thoughts they're out of your head and perhaps seeing them written down will help you see they're not as troubling as you originally thought. Or if they are, it could help you deal with them in an orderly way. If it's just thoughts and feelings you're writing down this could still help. I always found that writing something down, the physical act of using a pen and paper to write it, helped me so much. 



Stationery is awesome!


Who doesn't love new pens and notebooks? Colourful pens, beautiful notebooks, and SO MUCH COLOUR can only make you smile right?

Every time I set foot in a stationery shop I smile. The teenage girl in me shrieks with joy as I look at all the notebooks and journals available and the Hubby runs away in fear when I see the pen section. I have loads of pens that I love to use, including a pen I got from Ted Baker a few years ago. For colour I always use my Manuscript Pen Company pens, they're brilliant and I can draw to my hearts content with them. 

My Passion Planner is full of notes and drawings, and colour is everywhere. Writing things in the planner makes me smile and reaching for the coloured pens brings me joy. 

Journaling isn't just about getting out the bad thoughts, it's about taking care of yourself. It's about enjoying yourself too. Smile while you're writing. Incorporate colour into your journal. Add checklists so you can feel like you're achieving something. Anything that makes you smile - do it.

But never forget the stationery!



Journaling for mental health or self care


Whether you're struggling with your mental health or you're just trying to take care of yourself journaling is for you. 

Stay-at-home mums can use journaling as a form of self care so they can vent about having to do all the housework, or not getting enough time for themselves. Working mums can use it to rant about work, about no one helping with housework, or because they're not getting enough time for themselves. 





Journaling is like whispering to one's self and listening at the same time.

Mina Murray





Journaling can be whatever you make it. A form of therapy. Something you enjoy as a hobby but isn't that serious. Or just something to do. 

And you can choose the type of journaling you do too...



Examples of journaling




Gratitude journaling


Writing down everything you're thankful for, whether it's every day, every week, or every month. Taking time to be thankful, realising all the things that went well - or perhaps that didn't go so well but there was a silver-lining. 

Why Journaling Is Good For Self Care | Start a gratitude journal and be thankful for the little things.


Sometimes writing things down, trying to think of things to be thankful for, is a way to actually be more thankful for life itself. It makes you see that life, seeing the sun, seeing your child smile, are reasons to be alive and take joy in every moment.



Emotional journaling


Stress, anxiety, even love. Writing out your emotions, and your emotional responses to the things happening in your life is a great way to deal with whatever emotions you're having. As I said above, I enjoyed writing a journal when my parents were going through a divorce and it helped me cope. There have been times in my life when keeping a journal kept me going and made me see that things weren't quite as bad as I thought. 

Keeping track of how you're feeling is also a good way to look back and adjust your reactions to things for the future. Learning more about yourself, about how you deal with certain situations, is a good thing and can help you in the long run.



Bullet journaling


This is huge right now. Almost everyone I know keeps a bullet journal and they love doing it. They add things like checklists, they draw little flowers, they make their journal look pretty. And they love doing it. It makes them happy. And why not?



Personal planning


Diaries, journals, or planners they all help you keep you organised don't they. I love my Passion Planner, it helps me keep track of everything I need to do as well making me smile when I read the wonderful quotes on each page. I write down all I need to do, I cross off things I've completed, and I manage to remember birthdays because they're in my planner - which I look at every day.


Why Journaling Is Good For Self Care | Here are a few reasons why you should start journaling...


Journaling is a good way of taking care of yourself, it doesn't cost much (apart from that lovely new journal and pens!) and all you need to do is take time to write things down. Will your journal become your new therapist? Could you have a life changing realisation by keeping a journal? 

Isn't it about time you found out?



Do you keep a journal, and if so how much time do you spend on self care?




While you're trying to write in your journal why not grab this Captured! colouring page for your kids - it'll keep them busy for a while so you get some quiet time to write.




I want the colouring page for my kids (and coffee for me!)




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Post Comment Love 26th - 28th April

Post Comment Love is back after the Easter break and we're happy to welcome all you lovely bloggers. Stephanie and I would love you to join us, and if you haven't already why not check out our Blogger Showcase questions - you could be featured!

How did the Easter school holidays treat you? Or perhaps the kids are still on holiday?

My two went back to school on Monday and I'm happy to have a little peace, although we did have a lovely Bank Holiday weekend. We did lots of walking, took the boys to Park Hall in Stoke-on-Trent to walk around, and visited family. It was great. The weather helped of course, and it made me look forward to the summer.

On the other hand though, like I said it's nice to have some peace. And getting the house back in order is taking a little longer than I thought it would. That's the trouble with school holidays, everything suffers but particularly the cleaning. We're so busy going out and having fun that the house doesn't get cleaned. Never mind though, at least we're having fun eh?



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Teach your kids what stay-at-home mums do

How many times have you told someone you're a stay-at-home mum and seen their eyes glaze over? Isn't it about time we taught our kids what a stay-at-home mum does? We need to be teaching them it's just as important as being a high-flying executive with a high paying job.


As a stay-at-home mum I am at home all the time - it's in the job title. But, I'm not the kind of person that cleans all day, or even who's entire life is about my kids. I am me - Morgan. I am a writer, an artist, I love music, and nothing makes me smile more than a good coffee first thing in a morning. And yes, I am also a stay-at-home mum. I cook the meals, clean the house, and take my youngest to school every day. So why is the fact that I'm a stay-at-home mum what defines me?



What stay-at-home mums do...


So the presumption when you tell someone that you're a stay-at-home mum is that all you do is change nappies, clean the house, and watch daytime TV (🙄). And it's even worse when you have kids who go to school - people just presume you're going to get a job. What they don't realise is you already have one, and it's pretty full on!





A stay-at-home mom is a working mom. Being a stay-at-home mom is a job.

Cobie Smulders





As it's the school holidays I thought I'd take this time to teach my kids what stay-at-home mums do all day, and to be honest I think they've been surprised by how much I do. I'm sure they imagine me sitting at home drinking coffee all day!



A standard day


Breakfast - After getting up early (usually around 6:30am for me) I head downstairs and make breakfast for me and the Hubby. Having older kids means I can leave them to do their own breakfast. Of course that doesn't mean there's no cleaning to be done when they're finished. In fact the mess is probably worse than if I'd done their breakfast myself. So after everyone is finished with breakfast I spend some time in the kitchen cleaning. Wiping the sides, putting the dishes into the dishwasher. 

Teach Your Kids What Stay-at-Home Mums Do | Using the dishwasher is a skill, teach your kids about it!
Do your kids know how to use the dishwasher?


Then on school days I have to make LP's packed lunch and take him to school. 

After school drop off I'll put the washer on, make myself a coffee and head upstairs to my office where I spend the morning writing. Well, I say I spend the morning writing but what actually happens is I'll take a break mid-morning to check on the washer, empty it and put a new load in.

Lunch time rolls around fast and then I'm in the kitchen again making lunch for the Hubby and me. I actually take a lunch break, step away from the computer and spend some time with the Hubby. Sometimes I'll take the opportunity to do some exercise too. Sometimes.

After lunch, and before going back into my office, I attend to the washer again. Emptying, loading. And then it's back into my office for more writing, drafting, social stuff. Before long though it's school pick-up time and I get in the car to head to school. 

My day isn't over just yet.

Once I get home I attend the daily chores. I clean the kitchen, tidy the lounge, clean the bathroom. Once the daily chores are done I'll tackle the weekly chores - so depending on the day I might deep-clean the bathroom, sort out all the bedding in the house, or sort out my office.

Oh, and don't forget the washer, again.

You'd think my day as a stay-at-home mum was done - but no, I haven't made dinner yet!

So making dinner is one of the final jobs I do daily, once dinner is made I leave the dishes for the following day and chill out in the evening. I'll sit down and watch my favourite show (The Office, or Grey's Anatomy) or Hubby and I will watch a good movie.

So, there you have it - that's just one day. And that is pretty much every day of my life. I may be a stay-at-home mum but that is not all I am.

And again that's why I think it's important to teach kids what stay-at-home mums do



Take them with you


When the kids are off school take them around the house with you and show them the work you do while they're at school. Even if you have a different routine, you should be showing them the work you do. 

Teach Your Kids What Stay-at-Home Mums Do | Time to mop the kitchen floor - get the kids involved.


The great thing about involving the kids, showing them what you do everyday, is they learn that you don't just sit home all day waiting for them to come home. Those jobs you do all the time, the ones no one notices (until they're not done), they're the ones you should spend your time pointing out. 

It's about time we all raised our hands and said we work hard, and are here ALL THE TIME if our kids need us. 



Teach your kids what you do as a stay-at-home mum


When you're taking the kids around with you, showing them the chores you do every day why not take the opportunity to teach them how to do the chores. Teach them about putting the washing machine on, teach them how to dust the surfaces, how to clean the countertops. Even if your kids are young teaching them about the jobs you do as a stay-at-home mum is a good thing, they'll see you work hard, but they'll also see how to do the jobs when they're old enough.

Teach Your Kids What Stay-at-Home Mums Do | No, you can't daydream all day - you have work to do!
If only you could sit there daydreaming...



All stay-at-home mums are different, and the same


Everyone's routines are different and that's fine. You might enjoy taking five minutes to watch daytime TV while you eat lunch, or you may tackle your chores in the morning, but either way you do them - every day. 





It's the best job in the world, and the toughest job in the world all at the same time.

Angela Kinsey





And I can guarantee one thing about you - you see those glazed eyes when you tell someone you're a stay-at-home mum. As a way to tackle this I'm suggesting we all start teaching our kids what stay-at-home mums do, how much effort it is being there all the time and making sure the house is tidy so they can pull out their toys whenever they like. 

Teach Your Kids What Stay-at-Home Mums Do | Isn't it about time we taught our kids what a stay-at-home mum does?


If our children grow up knowing what stay-at-home mums do maybe, just maybe, one day you'll tell someone you're a stay-at-home mum and they'll get animated and say "oh goodness! You're a star!".



Do you talk to your kids about what you do as a stay-at-home mum?




Want a minute to enjoy a hot coffee? Put the kettle on then print this Captured! colouring page for your kids to colour in. Take a minute, sit in the lounge and watch your kids colouring while you drink your coffee!
Teach Your Kids What Stay-At-Home Mums Do | And then sit down and let them colour in while you have a coffee!

I want the colouring page for my kids (and coffee for me)!




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11 ways to cope with school holidays

Use my top ways to cope with school holidays to maintain your sanity, keep the kids busy AND happy, and end the holidays with a smile on your face rather than relief! The school holidays can be a tough time for parents, but also for the kids. Routine is thrown out of the window and you have to think of things to keep the kids busy so you don't lose your sanity. The kids are constantly "bored" and you need space. 

First of all if you haven't planned for the school holidays don't panic. There are still ways to cope without having to make sure you have things at home prior to the holidays. Planning for the school holidays is helpful, so in the future perhaps highlight the holidays in your calendar or use your phone to remind you there's school holidays coming up. I do both!



Visit Family during the school holidays


This one is easy right? If family works you could wait until the end of the day but if, like my family, they're taking time off you could spend the day visiting your family. It's almost like a day out but you're spending the time with your loved ones.

This week I'm taking the boys to see my parents. My parents do work but they have a week off as it's my Dad's birthday and we'll be visiting then. For us it has to be a day trip, they live 90 miles away so it's a 2 hour drive there and a 2 hour drive back. Thankfully we often get to spend the whole day with my parents and the kids have a brilliant time. The boys enjoy spending time with their grandparents because they don't get to see them very often and I love watching them chat to their grandparents.

11 Ways To Cope With School Holidays | Visiting family is a good way to get a rest and enjoy a coffee while chatting to your parents.
Oh yes, and someone (usually your mum) cooks for you! I love my mum's Sunday lunches!


Another reason visiting family is good is that it gives you a little rest. The family members, whether your parents or in-laws, will enjoy spending time with the kids as well as chatting to you. It gives you someone other than your kids to talk to and the kids are occupied some of the time so you may even get to drink a hot coffee!



Free resources in your local community


During school holidays most local libraries and community centres will run activities for the kids. It could be an Easter Egg hunt at Easter, or a craft day but there'll always be something the kids will enjoy and that won't cost you the earth.





You can be childlike without being childish. A child always wants to have fun. Ask yourself, 'Am I having fun?'

Christopher Meloni





In our local area the library is running an Easter Picture Hunt on various days during the Easter school holidays and later in the week they're running a collage competition too. This means I could take the kids along, no cost involved (apart from getting there), and the kids can have fun and I can probably have a coffee.



Sports and clubs in school holidays


Some kids love sports, LP is one of them, and whenever it's school holidays there are various sports and clubs that he likes to attend. This week he's attending a club where he gets to play with other kids, have fun playing sports, and even watch a movie. He's there all day and I give him a packed lunch - it's kind of like a school day. But best of all is that he has a fabulous time.

11 Ways To Cope With School Holidays | Football, or sports clubs, are a great way for your kids to have fun during the school holidays.
My boys love kicking around a football from time to time.


A great way of coping with school holidays is to find the sports and/or clubs that run through the holidays. Sometimes there's cost involved, sometimes it's free (if it's run by your local council for example), but you can be sure that your kids will love it!



Stock up on craft equipment before the holidays


Perhaps for one of the days during the school holidays you can let the kids go crazy with crafts. Trawl Pinterest and you'll find some great craft ideas for the kids to try. Hold back on the clean freak in you and let the kids play. Sometimes it's nice to let them have fun with crafts, even if they make a mess.

11 Ways To Cope With School Holidays | Stock up on your crafts and you can let the kids play for hours!
A good stock of crafts can keep the kids busy for hours.


My two don't often want to do crafts so when they do I let them make a mess. It's not fun cleaning afterwards but it's worth it to see them having fun creating. Also I get them involved in the cleaning, that way they get to see the effort it takes to clean up after making a mess - a great teaching opportunity.



Board games - a great way to distract them during the school holidays


Whether it's Scrabble or Connect 4 playing board games with your kids is not only a good way of spending time together but it's also one of the brilliant ways you can cope with the school holidays. Getting the kids to sit around the table, either work together or use strategies to beat each other, and generally spend time together as a family is always a good thing.

11 Ways To Cope With School Holidays | Board games are a great way to spend time together and enjoy the school holidays.
Scrabble is one of our favourites, especially for LP who likes coming up with good words.


Some of our favourite board games include Ticket to Ride, Carcassone, and Scrabble - I've even won a game of Scrabble during these school holidays! Go ME! (it doesn't happen very often).



Go somewhere "off peak"


Coping with school holidays is tough enough when you spend all your time at home, but when you try to do a day trip and every single other parent in the land decides to do exactly the same day trip on the same day it can leave you exhausted. Not only do you have to make the kids listen and pay attention but you also have to watch them like a hawk so they don't get lost amongst the hoards of other people.

11 Ways To Cope With School Holidays | Don't let the rain put you off that day out - you might enjoy it more!
Heading to Chester Zoo when the weather isn't great means you'll be able to see all the animals because there won't be many people about!


That's why I try to go to places that aren't busy. Like going to the beach - in winter. Or going for a lovely walk when it's really windy or raining. Or visiting the play centre when it's lovely and sunny outside. Chester Zoo is brilliant when it's raining - no one wants to walk around in the rain to look at animals and the animals love being out in the rain! Win Win! Admittedly there are some things that are just better at peak times, but if you can get away with it wouldn't it be good?



Games help you cope with the school holidays


One of my favourite ways of coping with school holidays is letting the kids play their games. Fortnite, Overwatch, whichever is the most popular game at the time is the one they'll spend playing. I'll be able to make, and drink, a hot coffee and maybe even watch a movie (!) while they play. The kids will be quiet (okay not quiet but they won't bother me about snacks!) and I don't have to worry about what they're getting up to.





Gaming has been a great way to get to know people. That's part of what I love about games, that they are social.

Rich Sommer





I also believe that playing games teaches kids, it's not all about screens and how bad looking at screens is for them. These games can teach your kids about strategy, about how to win without shooting everything in sight. Some games can make them think, and they're sociable too. My boys chat to their friends all the time when they're playing games, it reminds me of me back in the day when I used to spend hours on the phone to the friend I'd just seen at school that day!



Movies


Letting the kids watch movies, or even watching with them, is a good way of getting chill out time and helps to cope with the school holidays. Why not rent a new movie like Ralph Breaks the Internet, or let them choose their favourite, be sure to have snacks like popcorn or Doritos for them to munch on while watching too. 

11 Ways To Cope With School Holidays | Have the right snacks so your kids can enjoy a good movie!
Having the right snacks is essential!


My boys love watching new movies when they get to have snacks and call it a movie day. They'll choose their favourite movie, pick out which snacks they want, and then they'll sit for an hour or two (depending on the length of the movie) and I don't hear a peep out of them. It's lovely, and it means I can get other stuff done while they're watching. Win!



Time apart - cope with school holidays easier when you get a break


If you have more than one your kids are going to want time apart as well as spending time as a family. It's not only you that gets used to them being at school and if they're together 24/7 the bickering will be bad and you'll lose all your hair before you know it! Giving them time away from each other does them good and it helps to avoid the bickering. 

LP often goes out for a bike ride with his dad, they can be out for at least an hour, sometimes more. This gives LP the chance to be outdoors, which he loves, and it also means he's away from his older brother. BP is relieved because he's not being bothered and can scroll away on his phone in peace!



Spa Days


Okay, so I know this is unlikely during the school holidays but if you manage to get a spa day booked for one of the days in the holidays you're going to win! You can spend an entire day on yourself, forget about home, just chill out and read a book - ALL DAY! It is magical.

11 Ways To Cope With School Holidays | Spa Days are a brilliant way to cope, because you can concentrate on yourself.


Getting a spa day will be enough to let you cope with anything in the school holidays. Think about summer right now - book that spa day, tell your Hubby he'll have to look after the kids, and look forward to your day off!



Treat at the end of the school holidays


Towards the end of the school holidays why not plan a treat for you and the kids. It could be a day out to Chester Zoo, it could be a meal in your favourite restaurant, but make it something special. It'll help with getting the kids ready to go back to school and you'll give them something to talk about with their friends.

11 Ways To  Cope With School Holidays | A treat at the end of the holidays, like Barburrito, will give them something to talk about when they go back to school!
Visit Barburitto and have a yummy meal together!


As well as visiting family towards the end of the holidays we'll probably take the boys to a restaurant to enjoy a nice meal together. They'll go back to school and I'm sure the meal will be the main thing they talk about!

11 Ways To Cope With School Holidays | From video games to days out, there's something for you all to enjoy.


Like I said, coping with school holidays can be tough but as long as you have a few plans you'll be fine. I hope you'll use some of these tricks to help you cope.



Do you have any ways (I haven't mentioned) to cope with school holidays?




Put the kettle on, make yourself a coffee and grab the Captured! colouring page so you can enjoy your hot coffee while the kids colour in!

Post Comment Love 12th - 14th April

Welcome to Post Comment Love, our little linky hosted by myself and Stephanie where we welcome all bloggers to share with others right here. I enjoy reading your posts and think it's great connecting with people each week.

It's been a quiet week this week, well apart from the kids being at home of course! It's not been too bad to be honest, they've pretty much entertained themselves. Hubby and I took a day off on Monday and we went into Nottingham, then on Wednesday we all went for a walk at Wollaton Park. It's nice to get outdoors when the sun is shining - although it was quite chilly when we were walking, despite the sun being out!

LP is looking forward to next week when he'll be attending a sports club for a few days, then we're visiting my parents on Wednesday which I'm quite looking forward to. It'll probably feel quite hectic next week, but I think we'll all enjoy being busy.

We're also going to be celebrating my brother-in-law's 40th birthday next Monday, we're all going for a meal, which will be nice. This year we've got lots of 40th birthdays!

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Kids' activities you can both enjoy

As busy parents we're always looking for activities for the kids to do, but sometimes we want kids' activities we can both enjoy. We want to join in the fun and spend time with our kids, but we don't want to be bored with the same old kids' activities. With the Easter holidays upon us I've been thinking about all the ways my kids and I could spend time together doing fun activities, here's what I came up with.



Enjoy Outdoor games together


This time of year, when the rain holds off and maybe the sun makes an appearance, it's good to get outdoors. There are loads of kids' activities you can do outdoors, particularly if your kids enjoy being outside.

Kids' Activities You Can Both Enjoy | Play balancing games in your garden and you'll both have fun!
You can even play balancing games!



Badminton


LP loves playing badminton, and because I used to play when I was in school I enjoy it too. This past weekend LP and I got out in the garden and played a few rounds of badminton. We have a little set that we can put up in a few minutes and get to playing quickly. Playing badminton with LP made me think about the summer, and how lovely it would be to go for a picnic and take the badminton set with us so we can all have a go - It's on my list for summer kids' activities now! Badminton is a brilliant outdoor kids' activity that will keep them running around and maybe even give you a little workout too.



Football


With a boy who is into his sports obviously football features on his favourites list. I don't usually play with him, he has a net that he uses and can entertain himself for a while. But sometimes it's nice to get out and kick a football around, even if you don't like football. The thing with playing football is it gives you a workout as well as wearing out your kids - win win! 





At the end of the day, if I can say I had fun, it was a good day.

Simone Biles




Swing ball


We bought a swing ball set a few years ago and it's a good activity for LP to do outside. He can spend ages hitting the ball around and he never loses the ball because it's attached to the pole by elastic. It's good to watch him playing, enjoying being outside, but sometimes it's better to get involved myself. LP always screeches with joy when I head outside and tell him we'll play swing ball. 

Again swing ball is a good way for you both to get exercise, and even if you're not looking forward to it, you'll find that after a while it's a kids' activity you'll both enjoy!



Get your kids drawing


I LOVE drawing, it's a peaceful activity that I can put all my effort into. It is also something that LP likes to do when he gets encouragement and advice. When we spend time together drawing LP listens to my advice on how to make his drawings look good as well as watching what I do and copying. We've created monsters together, he's helped me make my other drawings better, and he's a budding artist. 

Kids' Activities You Can Both Enjoy | Draw together, even if you can't draw, show your kids you'll try something new.
Drawing together is a great way to connect, even if you can't draw!


There are some brilliant books you can buy that teach you how to draw using simple shapes, and it's a great way to teach your kids about drawing. Spending time together doing simple kids' activities will show your kids you're not afraid to do the things they love too!



You can both enjoy gardening


Getting the kids outdoors and messing around in the garden is another good teaching opportunity. Particularly if you have younger kids. I don't spend a lot of time in the garden, I don't know much about gardening, but getting the kids outside and learning about trees and flowers is something I used to do when they were younger. 

Kids' Activities You Can Both Enjoy | Teach them about the garden, the animals, and even all the bugs!
Teach your children about the wildlife that lives in your garden.


Once outside you could get the kids to plant trees, flowers, and more, and when the plants grow you can point to them and remind them it's something they planted. We have Daffodils around the garden that the kids planted when they were small. They return every year and every year I remind them that they spent time with their day planting the flowers. It's lovely to hear them talking about it and they even remember doing it - which is so cool!

Why not pop to a supermarket or DIY store and pick up some flowers bulbs, then get the kids outside and you can enjoy planting them together.



Crafts is a great kids' activity you can both enjoy


If you're any good at crafts, or even if you're not, you can grab some colourful paper and bits and pieces and get crafting. As it's Easter there are lots of fun kids' activities you can find on Pinterest that are fairly simple to try out. I love the Easter themed activities, there's bunnies as far as the eye can see and as long as you've got a few bits I have no doubt you'll be able to come up with something. 

I am not good at crafts, but that doesn't stop me enjoying these kids' activities with my youngest. In fact, all the ideas are helping with his school project where he has to create a miniature garden!



Lego


Who doesn't love Lego? Okay, so it's pretty annoying when you stand on it when it's been left on the carpet but when you're working together to build something amazing isn't it satisfying?

Kids' Activities You Can Both Enjoy | Whether it's a set, or regular Lego, build together!
LP building his Lego TIE Striker.


The Hubby and I have lots of sets of Lego, including the Taj Mahal and The Disney Castle, but we also have tubs of Lego that aren't part of any sets. The boys have collected them over the years and during the school holidays we often get out the Lego so they can create something. 

Sitting down with your kids and creating something unusual together is fun and you'll laugh as you come up with new and weird machines or houses. Lego is a kids' activity everyone will love, which is why it's on my list of activities you can both enjoy.



Build a fort together


On the theme of building something together, forts are another great way to connect. You have to work together to move the furniture to the right spot or to build the set in the right way. And it's not just the building you can both enjoy, the fun stuff you do inside the fort is good too!





'Have fun' is my message. Be silly. You're allowed to be silly. There's nothing wrong with it.



Jimmy Fallon





Spend 10-20 minutes building a fort, but you can spend all day enjoying time inside the fort with your kids. We've put LP's TV in his fort once or twice, and you can even take other kids' activities into the fort, like Lego or drawing. 

Forts are great, they let your kids imagination free and when you get involved too they can bring you into their fantasies. 

Go have fun together!

Kids' Activities You Can Both Enjoy |  Spend time with your kids and enjoy the activities they enjoy too!


Sometimes as adults we end up thinking we couldn't possibly enjoy kids' activities but when we get our kids involved and really get into it there are loads of kids' activities you can both enjoy. You just have to be in the moment with them.



What kids' activities do you enjoy?




Why not enjoy some colouring in with your kids with this Captured! colouring page - or alternatively grab a hot coffee while your kids colour in!