Do Mums Do All The Work At Christmas?

I read an article on the Telegraph website today basically saying that mums do all the work at Christmas.

Now although I'm sure that's the case in some households in mine, and many others, it most certainly is not.

My Hubby is a star when it comes to Christmas shopping and wrapping presents. 

'Tis the Season for Pantos!

This is the time of year you'll see advertisements all over the place for Pantomimes. I love Pantos, they're a great way to introduce children to the Theatre.

In Nottingham at Theatre Royal the Panto is Aladdin starring Christopher Biggins, Simon Webbe, and Ben Nickless.

Aladdin Pantomime showing at Theatre Royal Nottingham until 10th Jan 2016.

The last time I went to see a Panto BP was five and it was a trip with his school. Every year I mean to take the boys to see the Panto and never quite get around to doing it.

3 Ways to Spend Time With The Family (away from screens)

This time of year is great, everyone is planning to take time off work and spend time with their family.

3 Ways to Spend Time With The Family (away from screens) | Morgan's Milieu: Spending time with family this festive season is important.

The Hubby isn't going to be working over the festive period which means there'll be lots of time for us all to do things together.

Often though there's that sudden realisation...

What do we do?!

Giving Back This December With #BlogItForward

A couple of weeks ago I was tagged by the lovely Mrs Tubbs over at Someplace Strange and when I clicked to find out what #BlogItForward was I smiled. 

Giving Back This December with #BlogitForward | Morgan's Milieu: Are you going to #BlogitForward this December?

Throughout December Wayfair will donate £50 to Habitat for Humanity for every blog post that includes this badge.


The idea is to give back this Christmas, blog about it, and add the badge to your blog post. 

I had intended to write about me having the Hubby's family over for Christmas lunch but last weekend the boys and I decided to go through all their toys. We had a good clean out and all the toys they no longer play with were put to one side.

An Attitude Shift

Last week I did some exercise!

I know, shock-horror right?!

On Tuesday I woke up so annoyed with myself that I got out of bed, put on my gym clothes and used our cross-trainer. 

An Attitude Shift | Morgan's Milieu: Working out on the cross-trainer was hard work.

It's been sitting there, doing nothing for months and after a chat with the woman at the gym I decided to give it a go. I started with just 10 minutes, figuring I'd build it up like I did with my running earlier in the year.

My Morning

Every weekday I get up at 6:30am (sometimes earlier) and begin my 'working' day. In the two hours between me getting up and taking LP to school I do tons of jobs.

My Morning | Morgan's MIlieu: A mum's chores are never done.

Here's an example of an average morning:

Arise at 6:30am, still dark outside.
Up, dressed and downstairs by 6:45am.
Toast, Orange Juice, and BBC News while I eat breakfast.
BP gets up, requires breakfast (my morning break is now over).
LP gets up, requires breakfast.

The Key to Communication with a Tween

As regular readers will know my eldest, BP, is eleven years old, and that puts him firmly in the Tween camp. 

The Key to Communication with a Tween | Morgan's Milieu: Want to know how to communicate with your tween? Check this post.

I used to joke about him being a tween because although he was meant to be at that stage because of his age he hadn't really reached it.

Well the joke is on me now!

I'm Holding Me Back

Right now I am my own worst enemy.

I get up in the morning with all the good intentions in the world. I want to eat healthily, I want to steer clear of the alcohol and I don't want to touch the chocolate.

I don't know what it is that happens but at some point during the day my determination abandons me and by lunch time I'm starving and digging into a giant Double Decker or having a glass of bourbon after dinner.

My weight last week: 11st 11.6lbs
My weight this week: 11st 13.7lbs

My weight has jumped up again. I'm not winning this battle, to be honest I'm not even fighting.

In my favour I did speak to someone at my local gym last week. She was a lovely woman who explained how things work and told me they run classes too.

I have been missing my yoga class quite a lot. Every Friday morning I would go to a yoga class and absolutely loved it. I found it helped my balance, my posture, and I felt wonderful after being there.

Then it got cancelled.

I haven't looked for any replacement classes since, until I called the gym. I happened to ask about classes and she said they do yoga classes, amongst others. 

I'm hopefully going to a class this evening, to try out. I'll let you know how it goes.

Home Is Where The Heart Is

I was tagged by the lovely Agent Spitback in the What Home Means To Me series a while ago and I thought now would be a great time to share my post.

That saying sums it up for me.

As long as I am with my children and the Hubby I am happy.

What I Read November Roundup

Another month has passed and we'll soon be entering 2016, I cannot believe how fast this year has gone. It only seems two minutes ago it was January. 

Anyway, welcome to another roundup - this time of my November What I Read shares.

In What I Read 30 Kirsten hit a new parenting low, Kaye shared what she thinks is the perfect equation of motherhood, and Tayla listed the 10 real reasons why mums blog. Sarah shared Dangermouse's adventures with us, Catie worked out that children torture their parents and @MrsGrohl explained why she wouldn't be getting her tatas out for Breast Cancer.

Trust Yourself

Having a little bundle of joy completely dependent on you is a daunting prospect, throw illness into the mix and it's suddenly terrifying. As a new parent your confidence is shaky.

Trust Yourself | Morgan's Milieu: Feeling confident as a parent is tough - Trust yourself and your instincts.

BP's first proper illness scared me so much I can still remember it now.

How A Mother Can Strengthen The Bond With Her Son

As a mother with sons, sometimes it can be difficult to integrate into their lives as well as you'd like. Young boys are more likely to gravitate towards their fathers due to shared interests. And that, sometimes, can leave you feeling isolated. 

Don't get me wrong, mothers always enjoy a special bond with their sons, but they can't always bond over things so easily.

If you feel as though you're struggling to get involved in your son's life as much as you wish, there are a few steps you can take. Fair warning, though, most of it involves compromise! 

In the end, though, it's definitely worth investing the time and energy. You'll enjoy a more fruitful relationship as a result, and your son will certainly appreciate it! 

Here are the ways you can achieve this.

Am I A Terrorist Sympathiser?

While I was listening to the news this morning I heard something that made me angry.

David Cameron called Jeremy Corbyn, and all other opponents of action in Syria, "terrorist sympathisers". 

David Cameron "Terrorist Sympathiser" comment makes me angry.

I could not believe my ears.

Does that mean I'm a terrorist sympathiser?

Time to Attend Class

Last week I said that I'm not feeling healthy and I was doing my best to sort that out. That's still true today and I've even begun to think about attending some local exercise classes (if I can find any).

My weight last week: 11st 11.5lbs
My weight this week: 11st 11.6lbs

Steps last week: 42,753
Steps this week: 37,575

That's 0.1lbs on, and a lot less steps. I blame the weather.

With the awful weather, loads of nice food, and the comfort of home it's so easy to sit on my bottom and do nothing. I'm finding it hard to motivate myself to go on the treadmill, even though I used to enjoy it.

I'm wondering if I start attending a class or two, get myself out and DO something, then maybe I'll be more motivated to run too.

Like I said before my knees are an issue at the moment and losing weight will ease it, so that's the priority. 

I'm going to try a new technique to trick myself into thinking I'm having a larger meal - smaller plates. Whenever I put out dinner in an evening I give the kids less than me and the Hubby, obviously. The boys have smaller plates and it's easy to give them less, but BP is getting bigger now and wants to eat more. Perhaps what I ought to be doing is letting BP have the bigger plate and I have the smaller one.

I'll try it out and see how I go.

I know the usual trick is to put off losing weight until the new year, after all Christmas is almost upon us and those mince pies won't eat themselves right?

But if I wait then after Christmas I will weigh half a stone more than I do now, perhaps even more.

Instead I'm starting now, I won't deny myself the nice things but I'll be conscious of what I'm eating. Rather than just scoffing everything in sight I'll limit my intake.

How will you handle the weight loss through the Christmas period?

Fitness 4 Mamas

Blogging To Jogging

Learning to Surf The Waves of Life

Life is unpredictable.

Each and every one of us lives our daily lives in ignorance of the very real fact that something could happen at any time to change our life forever.

Life is like the Sea. Beautiful & Serene. Savage & Unrelenting.

Life is like the sea - beautiful and serene in places, showing such sights you could cry, but it is also savage, an unrelenting beast that can attack at any moment.

What I Read 33

Although I've been quiet on social media the last few days I'm still here. I'm reading posts as much as I can, so let's get on with the blog love shall we?

Stuck For Baby Gifts This Christmas? Fabulous Ideas To Inspire

Parents will always want to spoil their kids on Christmas day. It’s the day we get to bring magic to life with the promise of Santa Claus and presents. 

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While our older children will love getting involved, babies are too young to understand what’s going on. But that doesn’t mean they too can’t get involved with the festivities. Here’s a list of fabulous gift ideas that will help you buy for any baby that you know this Christmas.

How to Add a Custom Header to Blogger

So you've created your header using Canva or PicMonkey, or some other creative tool, but what now?

It's time to add that gorgeousness to Blogger.

How to add a custom header to Blogger

Thoughts on Blogfest '15

On Saturday I attended Mumsnet's Blogfest '15, it was my first blogging conference. I am still processing, my head is full and it's hard for me to put everything into order but I'm going to try and share what I learned.

A Mum is NOT just a Mum - Don't give up your dreams.

Listening to Meera Syal CBE, Bridget Christie, Polly Vernon, Catherine Mann, and Margaret Atwood (via link to Toronto at 4am!) was inspirational. Bryony Gordon hosted a fantastic talk in which the ladies discussed being a mum at the same time as trying to have a career. I heard how a supportive partner is handy, knowing your worth is important, but being able to express yourself is essential.

Planning and Action in Progress

This morning I did the food shopping and although I bought chocolate, it wasn't for me, and crisps (also not for me) I also bought fruit, Upbeat drinks, and planned my meals for the week.

Food to avoid: burgers and chips, fried chicken, cookies, and muffins are just a few of the things you ought to avoid when on a diet.

My weight last week was 11st 12.5lbs
My weight this week is 11st 11.5lbs

What I Read 32

It's time to share my favourite reads from this week, and I have to say my list is getting rather long. The posts I share may be from a few weeks ago but be sure that I enjoyed reading them.

What I Read 32 badge, gold circles with pink writing.

How To Make Your Navigation Menu Float

When you scroll through my blog you may have noticed that my Navigation Menu stays at the top. It floats over my blog rather than staying at the top of the page and disappearing when you scroll down. 

In this post I'm going to show you how to make your Navigation Menu float.

As always use the "Inspect Element" to try out changes before changing your HTML.

Where Has My Cheery Boy Gone?

For as long as I can remember LP has been the entertainer of the family. He's energetic and he always has a smile on his face.

Or at least that's how it was.

But now my cheery boy seems to have gone.

There's a teenager hiding inside that little man!

He's been replaced with a moody, sulky, 6 year old.

The Nonsense Show Review

I've spent lots of time over the years trying to encourage my boys to read. I think it's really important that they do and any book that interests them I buy hoping that it will capture their imagination. 

BP has never enjoyed reading, he'll start reading a book and then give up or "forget" about it. 

LP loves to read. He's got all kinds of books and the bookcase in his room is almost full. He'll try out anything, from The BFG to Mr Men books. I like him to read proper books like The BFG but I don't mind it when he chooses the simpler ones because it gives him a chance to just enjoy it.

The Nonsense Show Review | Morgan's Milieu: The Nonsense Show by Eric Carle

How To Move Your Search Bar Into Your Navigation Menu

A couple of weeks ago I was asked about putting a search bar/button next to the Navigation Menu or Masthead Bar. It took me a while to work it out but in the end I did it so I'm going to share what I learned with you lovely people.

Before I start with my "how-to" I want to say that if you don't have a search bar somewhere on your blog you need to get one now. 

Far too often I'll be looking for a particular post on a blog and I'll have to search through loads of pages before I find what I'm looking for. This wastes my time and might dissuade me from returning to your blog. Please, please, please, have a search bar.

Lots of bloggers like to have their search bar in the sidebar and others like it to hover over the top of their page alongside the tabs. In this post I'm going to show you how to move your search bar from your sidebar and put it into your Navigation Mar at the top of your page (if you have one).

Stop Thinking and Start Doing

I skipped writing about my weight last week, I didn't weigh myself all week and pretty much ate whatever I wanted. I'd given up.

But over the past few days I've noticed a few things about my body and how I feel and I've realised that I can't let myself off. It's time to stop thinking about it and start doing.
Stop Thinking and Start Doing | Morgan's Milieu: My weight loss badge.
My weight today was 11st 12.5lbs. This is unacceptable.

What I Read 31

I want to take a moment to send my wishes to all involved in the incidents in Paris. I read about what happened and am appalled that so many people have been hurt or killed.

Before the atrocities I'd put together these posts that I read, I hope you enjoy them.

What I Read 31 | Morgan's Milieu: My What I Read Badge

What I Read 31 | Morgan's Milieu: Nicky, of notjustthe3ofus blog

Whether it's blogging or daily life some days are harder than others. One day you can get up full of beans and ready to take on the day, and the next is like someone has stolen your get-up-and-go. Nicky shared a post that I enjoyed; Ever Wondered Where Your Mojo Goes? In it she asks what you do to entice yours back again.

Sisterhood of the World Bloggers Award

A little while ago I was tagged by Izzie who blogs over at The World According to Izzie for the Sisterhood of the World Bloggers Award. Thanks Izzie!
Sisterhood of the World Bloggers Award | Morgan's Milieu: Tagged by a blogging friend I now get to pass on the wonderful award.

Izzie asked ten questions that I have to answer and then I need to come up with ten questions for 7 bloggers I want to nominate.

I always love reading, and writing, these posts. It's a chance to get to know the blogger and an opportunity to share a little bit more about myself. 

SlinkyLinks Jewellery Review and Giveaway

I love jewellery, from big dangly earrings to cute little rings. It's just another way to express myself. Anything that sparkles will always catch my eye but I also like unique pieces of jewellery. The kind that someone would comment on not because of the sparkles but because it's different.

Cue SlinkyLinks jewellery

SlinkyLinks Jewellery Review and Giveaway | Morgan's Milieu: Pink Necklace and Earrings set from SlinkyLinks.
SlinkyLinks small circle, double-sided necklace and earrings set

SlinkyLinks jewellery is handmade from leather by one very talented lady, Melodie.

A Good Cleaning Day Can Brighten Your Outlook

Over the past couple of weeks I've been feeling a bit low, the dreary weather, the dark nights, it all got on top of me. Today I got up and decided to have a bit of a cleaning day, the hoovering desperately needed doing, not to mention the polishing, and the windows, and... well let's just say cleaning is not a priority!

All morning I've been putting shoes under the stairs, tidying toys away now the boys are at school, and the hoover got switched on. I pulled the polish out from under the sink and polished the window sills too. 

As I was hoovering the stairs, a job I hate doing because I have to use the nozzles, I began to feel brighter. A smile creeped onto my face as I watched the bits get sucked up into the hoover. 

It felt good to clean! 

This doesn't often happen, I see cleaning as time away from the blog, time I could be using to write. I do put the dishwasher on daily, tidy the kitchen and such, but general cleaning is only done when absolutely necessary. 

Part of the reason for that is I cannot stand cleaning up only to have the boys get out the lego box and tip all the lego out, 5 minutes after I've finished. Cleaning can feel pointless at times because I know that it won't be long before it will all need doing again. It's one of those jobs that is never really finished.  

Today though, even with the dark morning, cleaning up made me happy. Seeing a clean carpet, toys away, a lounge that someone could sit in without having to move something first, made me smile.

Don't get me wrong it's not all perfect, there's still a massive pile of washing to get through and my ironing pile is resembling Everest, but the rest of the house is looking good.

Although I hate cleaning sometimes it does brighten my mood, it's like therapy. 

A good cleaning day almost feels like you're cleaning out your mind. Does that make sense?

With the day-to-day humdrum of life your mind can get bogged down in details, bits of jobs left on 'floor', dust settles in the corners, and a good cleaning day almost feels like you're cleaning up your mind too.

Perhaps it's the mindlessness of it, maybe it's taking time away from other stuff and just getting on with it, either way I'm glad to be feeling brighter.

It's made me wonder about sorting out other rooms and getting rid of 'clutter' but I think I'll save it. Maybe I'll need it as the days get shorter!

How do you brighten your mood this time of year?

Why not get the kids involved in the cleaning too? Join my mailing list and you get a free downloadable chores list for the kids - giving you more time for you!

Creating a Header Using Canva

As I said last week I'm going to help you create your own header using Canva this week. Now I'm not claiming to be an artist of any sort. In fact I'm fairly rubbish when it comes to that stuff, but Canva make it really easy to make something that looks great.

Creating a Blog Header using Canva is easy and it's free!

The first thing you need to do is go to and choose the kind of document you want. You can choose one of the preset dimensions or you can customise your dimensions.

Capture Those Special Moments

Over the weekend I cleared out a large cabinet we have in our lounge, I pulled out all the wrapping paper we have in stock, I pulled out all of our photo albums.

LP in 2011, 2 years old.

As I sat there, surrounded by photo albums, art supplies, and wrapping paper, I couldn't help looking through those photo albums. We never get them out anymore and look through those special moments that we captured so long ago. 

What I Read October Roundup

October was a busy month and I've loved sharing lots of blog posts I enjoyed reading. Here's a round up of all the posts I shared during October.

Ladies Boots Wish List

Now that the awful weather is here the only way to cheer up is to buy new boots, right?

If you're anything like me you lust after all styles in all colours, and wish you had the same budget as Jennifer Anniston or Katy Perry.

Alas we don't and we have to put together wish lists in the hope that the Hubby or partner sees it and takes the hint.

Yes, I'm talking to you Hubby! 


Christmas Gift Inspiration

Now that Halloween is out of the way we can officially talk about Christmas and with that in mind I thought I'd put together a gift inspiration post.


Whether it's pretty jewellery, nice-smelling perfume, or fashion, that your lady is into there's loads of ideas. 

For a start a piece of jewellery that could last for years is this Thomas Sabo Bracelet. Buy extra charms to go with it, or buy one each time you do something special together, creating special memories. She'll cherish it forever.

I'm Attending Blogfest '15!

Okay so I've had the badge saying I'm attending Blogfest '15 in my sidebar for the past month but now it feels real. 

You see this morning I bought my train ticket!

I hope that's not me having missed my train!

The Hubby had been nagging me to do it for ages and I'd been putting it off and generally forgetting about it. 

Customisation Tips for A Blogger Blog - Choosing Your Colours

A few weeks ago I was chatting to someone on Facebook and they happened to mention how difficult it was to find any useful customisation tips for a Blogger blog.

The majority of blogs offer lots of advice to users of WordPress but for blogger... not so much.

I have been using Blogger since I started blogging back in 2011 and I love it. I am able to make my blog look how I want and at the same time Google take care of all the complicated things like hosting and ensuring I don't get hacked.

Health and Weight Loss 35

So things haven't been going so well with the health or the weight loss.

Health and Weight Loss 35 | Morgan's Milieu: The weight is piling on, but I'm determined, at least this week, to keep it in check.

My weight a few days ago was 11st 9.3 lbs, I haven't weighed myself since partly due to the fact that the scales need new batteries and partly because I'm scared to. My weight keeps creeping up and I know 12st is just around the corner. I CANNOT allow myself to hit that weight again, it was so hard to lose it in the first place!

Roald Dahl's House of Twits App Now Available

I have talked before about how much LP loves to read. His love of books has only grown the past few years and now that he can read he is always looking for new stories. When new apps come along for his iPad that relate to stories that's even better and that's why we couldn't wait to try out Roald Dahl's House of Twits app.

Roald Dahl's House of Twits App Now Available | Morgan's Milieu: Find Roald Dahl's House of Twits on the App Store and Google Play Store.

We have just finished reading Roald Dahl's Charlie and the Chocolate Factory, and LP has just watched the old movie The BFG. The Roald Dahl books capture LP's imagination and he's whisked off to the faraway lands to enjoy amazing adventures.

What I Read 30

As I've said before my list of brilliant posts grows every week. I love sharing my favourite posts with you all and hope you've found some new blogs to read. In What I Read 30 (I can't believe I've done 30 of these!) I'm sharing posts from some great writers.

What I Read 30 | Morgan's Milieu: Parenting, and breast cancer awareness. When was the last time you checked yourself?

How I Prepare The Family For Our Adventures

Being a mother of two boys, I’m slightly outnumbered in the home three to one! But that doesn’t stop me from being the head of the household! 

Sometimes I feel like if I didn’t take care of things there’d be chaos. Take family outings, for example. Now, as a family we all love to go out and about and have little adventures of our own. I feel that days out together are an important part of strengthening the family bond.

But sometimes preparing for them can be a nightmare! So, having learnt from my mistakes, I’m now a seasoned pro. And I’m going to let you in on my secrets. Here are the ways in which I like to prepare the family for our adventures.

Royal Air Force Museum London

My dad used to love going to aircraft museums, I distinctly remember seeing old photos of my dad standing next to old RAF planes. I couldn't tell you what kind of planes they were, but I'm sure my dad could.

I presume that the photos were taken somewhere like the Royal Air Force Museum in London.

Being a Blogger is...

The day I flew to Orlando I was tagged in this ‘Being a Blogger is…’ meme by Catie, who writes at Diary of an Imperfect Mum, and I wrote the post while sitting on the plane.

Blogging has changed my life and I can't imagine what I would be doing right now if I wasn't a blogger. A bored stay-at-home mum I guess. With two school-aged children my days would be empty without blogging.

Being a Blogger is... | Morgan's Milieu: Blogging is AWESOME!

Being a blogger is… 

Autumn Style with Ethical Clothing

I've always liked following fashion, in my twenties I bought all the magazines and longed for the clothes worn by the stars. Back then no one thought about ethical clothing.

These days ethical clothing is not only fashionable but desirable and fantastic quality too.

Being a busy mum I pretty much live most of my days in jeans, I usually pair them with a t-shirt in the summer and a jumper in winter. I love simple, easy to wear clothes.

Autumn Style with Ethical Clothing | Morgan's Milieu: a plum cardigan from Nomads Clothing. This cardi would be great for any autumn outfit.

As the weather gets colder I find that a thin jumper is not enough to keep me warm and I've been reaching for my cardigans more often. That extra layer is lovely on the colder days.